Not only do they keep you clean and reduce the chance that you'll forget and touch your eye or put your fingers in your mouth or your partners vagina, if they have one , but if you are squeamish, condoms and gloves put a solid barrier between you and the possible poo you want to avoid. After wondering if it has to hurt it doesn't the most common question I get from people who haven't had any sex before is whether or not it means they will come into contact with poo or feces. And anal sex does require communication, will involve condoms most of the time and it can be a bit messier. Whether your anal sex involves fingers, a penis, or a dildo, you won't be bumping up against a whole lot of bm as teachers and nurses like to call it. You aren't going to be covered in feces for having anal sex, but it is possible, maybe even likely, that when something goes into your anus, it will come out with a little bit of fecal matter, which may or may not be visible. If you talk to the people involved sometimes you find out that this was something that was planned, and one or both of the partners enjoyed it. Anal sex may still be taboo but that's a social and cultural thing, it isn't anything about the sex itself.
Jocelynn. Age: 27.
The rectum and anal canal, which is where you're heading if you're having anal sex, are passageways, not storage areas.
Lea. Age: 32.
Dirty anal sex
And anal sex does require communication, will involve condoms most of the time and it can be a bit messier. People can have anal sex that is as safe, pleasurable and fun as any other kind of sexual activity. But messy can mean you need to talk about something or you need to be able to clean yourself or your partner up with a sense of fun and humor.